Breaking the Barriers

When training a slave into perfection you need to have a great understanding of the mind of a slave, and the different levels of resistance she has to break through to become the kind of property you want in your life. The different levels have different approaches and some are very hard to break but it will be worth your while if you go that extra mile when doing it.

The resistance consist of many different emotions and feelings. The strongest is fear. It can be fear of losing control, losing contact with her old life or that she is not good enough being the worthless piece of shit that she is. Other than fear there are limits and boundaries. Breaking those limits and moving boundaries is essential for every slave. If limits would be respected the slave will never be all that she can be, it is a huge part of training her, to completely remove her limits and having her boundaries stretched to maximum.

Limits is things the slave would consider unacceptable in some form, it can be things like needles, anal use, animals, blood, objectification and so on. Some limits like children is of course not something you remove, it goes without saying. Limits can be defined by boundaries if you want to complex the issue. Most limits must be removed to be able to take complete control of the slave. It will make her stronger in her belief when she overcomes her limits.

Boundaries is a natural part of who you are, it is about integrity and protecting yourself. When you have strong boundaries you are received as a strong person in todays society, who stand up for your beliefs and who you are. You have a good sense of how people receive you and you are in control of your own feelings; you know that you can never be responsible for how other people feel. In the process of getting strong boundaries you learn about who you are and how you influence your surroundings. So it is of course important that you address those boundaries immediately when dealing with a slave. Boundaries must be moved, the slave must be aware of who she is and that she is nothing but a worthless and stupid slave. We dont want strong boundaries in a slave, for obvious reasons. she would be useless to us.

In order to move boundaries you need humiliation, guilt, shame and blame. Many would say this is not healthy but I say it is a different kind of healthy. I don’t want strong boundaries on any slave even if I want a strong productive slave. There is a difference. Look at religion, the house of any religion use this as a tool to make loyal servants since the dawn of man. It is just about how the society sees it, if it is to be an acceptable way of treating another human being.

When stretching boundaries you make sure the slave is aware of her insignificance as property but it is her responsibility to make you happy, that you feel good and that you have everything you need. When she fails she is blamed and judged that she is useless and not worthy to be your slave, she need to know that she needs to do better if you want to be the kind of slave you need, she need to hear that she will be punished, even if it is not her fault, she need to take responsibility for your fault as well, and accept it. She must learn to take her punishment and accept that she has no control of her life and most of all no control of the person she is becoming. You need to be harsh on her every day, you need to blame her for everything even the littlest thing, to judge her and telling her that she is bad and useless, she need to know it is her fault and no one else’s.

So you see humiliation, guilt shame and blame is important tools for you to make a good slave. Once she takes responsibility for your feelings she will be extremely attentive to your every move, your every need and your every desire, regardless of her own situation, feelings or needs. She will believe that if you are happy she is happy; when you are satisfied she is satisfied. Her boundaries are moved and the last of resistance is gone.

Of course there is room for positive reinforcements as well, but keep it separated to not confuse the slave. Don’t blame her one minute and then praise her the next. When she is in the blame and guilt state of mind she must not be praised or be given a gentle touch. That will only be counterproductive. Keep the two on separate occasions and be aware of who you are to your slave. You are her owner, her guardian and she is responsible for how you feel or she will not have your praise and protection.

I hope this make sense to you. In my next post I will discuss the different stages you can see in a slave when training her into perfection.