Ok, so you got a new property, a new slave, maybe she is young and it is her first time. The first 2-4 weeks is going well, but then she start to become restless, she start questioning your authority, she doesn’t respond as quickly as before, she complains and talks out of order and start showing an attitude. Sounds familiar? What went wrong?First of all, it is your fault! She has nothing to do with this; she is just reacting to your treatment and your leadership. Do not take it out on her, being frustrated and angry. she is after all just property and has no blame in how she has been trained, guided and used. If you do, you have lost and the road back to trust is long and hard even if you take drastic measures. So let us start analyzing the why’s before we go to the how’s.
There are many things that are happening to a slave the first weeks when introduced into a new household, everything is new and she is focused on living up to her new expectations, it all keeps her mind busy and she looks to you for leadership and guidance. She has a lot of expectations of her own but they are put on the side for now, she’s making an effort to accommodate all your needs. When the first weeks of turmoil has faded and she is getting used to the environment and most of all starting to know you, her mind start to wander, her own expectations resurface and she start to questions her decisions, she has a lot of limits, boundaries and norms from her old life and upbringing that start questioning her choices. All in all, there are a lot of things going on in the mind of the slave, consciously or not. (Read more about barriers here)
To my experience there are two ways to go when this happens, or a mix of the two. The softer way with a physiological approach and or the harder way which means to start over and do what you should have done from the first day when she arrived. I have visited this in an earlier post but I take this one more time just for the sake of argument.
The softer way start with a total revamp of your commitment to each other. Go through the expectations you both have, set goals for her training and be very clear about her purpose as a slave to you. She must be totally aware of what she is and what her duties are. She needs constantly supervision and guidance, she needs strict set of rules, rituals and protocols that tells her how to act and behave in everyday life, she needs stringent control in speech, posture, attitude and services. she need to learn that you are in control and that you never will let her get away with unproductive behaviors, you need to be consistent in your orders and always following up when you have given her a task to do, make sure she has done it well and praise her if she done good and correct her or punish her when she has done bad. Never take her word for it, always control, give her attention and keep her busy; that is what she needs and seeks from you, i.e. your approval. Every night have a Q&A where she is allowed to speak freely about any issues she has and where she is not punished for speaking out of turn. Let her write a journal where she can put all of her thoughts into that she feels she are not able to bring up to your face. You will read this journal and address issues you feel are important for her development; also you have a good tool for checking on her mental health and stability.
The harder approach is more hands on and is used when you want a completely obedient slave and are prepared to force your will on her i.e. not completely consensual. It starts with a thorough assessment of the slave’s weaknesses and strengths. Take your time and put it down on paper and then it is time for 1-2 weeks of tough love for the slave. She need to understand that her only expectations on you are that she is allowed to serve you, that her only goal is how to serve you better, her only purpose in life are to serve you, she is not a thinking being, she is guided by your rules and your word is law. She needs to be mentally broken down, after all you cannot fill a glass of water if it is already full, it needs to be emptied out. Use your list of weaknesses. Hang her up, whip her, beat her, flog her, abuse her body and make sure she is not drifting into sub space. Take her down let her simmer and reflect, start over, push her limits, tell her over and over again what her purpose is and keep verbally abusing her, constantly humiliate her. If you want to go the extra mile shave her head and put a mask on her, put her in front of a mirror so she can adapt her self image. During this time she is feed water, vegetables, candy high on sugar, as little protein as possible. The food is given to her while in bondage or it is served on the floor in bowl. Put her in a lot of bondage and sensory deprivation for long period of time while being used and abused. she needs to understand she is not in control, keep a pressure on her; never let her fully rest during all this. Your goal is to keep her in a confused, volatile state of mind where she is bombarded physically and verbally with everything you can think of. When she start to give in she will accept your treatment of her, she is in a fragile state where she accept anything you through at her. Now it is time to rebuild her.The rebuild phase is where you imprint her with your thoughts about being a slave. By strict rules, constant control, micro management, guidance and very clear goals she will become your most valuable property, she will never leave your side or stray again. Train her in bondage, sexual services, domestic service, pain/pleasure, humiliation, obedience, posture, objectification, dehumanization, pierce her, brand her, tattoo her, do everything you want with her and keep doing it to remove every limit and boundary she has left.It takes a lot of effort on your part to keep her this way. Keep consistency, follow up on everything, give her attention, punish her when she is being bad, and if you like, reward her when she is doing good. She is your pet and property and you deserve her and you should be proud of your accomplishment.
This is some of the things I do and do well I might say. Tell me your thoughts about this and how to go about a stubborn unproductive slave…we are all learning and we are all friends here with the same goal, to keep slaves and have a good life having them around.
Sir Fenrir;
ReplyDeleteThis post was extremely helpful. Ive read thru it a few times.
I decided on the hard aproach, and already, my slave is behaving better. I have punished her for everything, and she has been hanging either by her legs or her wrists for 2 days now. Her actions are already more immediate, when i give a command, she usually jumps.
Thanks again Fenrir,
Keep posting and know you are making a difference.
That is great to hear, keep at it, don't stop now even if you have the desired effect. she need to be broken so that she don't go back to unproductive behavior when you turn your back. she need to understand that she is property and that she needs this to become a better slave to you. if you get lenient with her you have lost in the long run. Something that is often overlooked is that we as slave owners on some level still think of our slaves as persons, and not as property we so quick tell everyone that they are. The process of breaking her mentally is as much helping you to become a better owner that it is for her becoming a better slave.
ReplyDeleteBut, I can’t stress this enough, don't forget to rebuild her, after all you do want a strong and well balanced slave who has all her focused on you and put all of her energy into you and serving you.
Let me know how it goes and also if you have any pointers please post them here so everyone can benefit from this.
Um... dude. This isn't healthy. You shouldn't be treating other humans like this. Chances are that she had low self esteem to start with, otherwise she would be showing men she was not to be fucked with.
ReplyDeleteBeing a jock I cannot understand why other women would be willing to do this. Poor girls. Sick.
What is sick about it, i do this because i need it, to serve a man and let him have his way with me is who i am and what i believe in, intolerance like what you express is why we can't be completely open with all this. What about homosexuals are they sickening to you too, and what about abortion is that something we should ask your permission for?
ReplyDeleteand by the way, i am not a victim, i am where i want to be in life, which is more than most people can say.
ReplyDeleteAnomous, thanks for your input; you have the right to speak out about things you think is unfair and sick as you put it. But by that same right a person have the right to chose her life and what to do with it, she has the same right as you to let a strong hand guide her into a strong minded and well balanced woman, it maybe not be the kind of woman you are brought up to have around you but what is it that gives you’re the right to tell someone she is living a sick life and that you are not?
ReplyDeleteYour understanding of this lifestyle is maybe the reason why you made this comment, perhaps you should look into why a lot of men and women all over the world chose this life and are proud about it until someone tells them they are sick. I think rebecca have point when she ask if you also think guy people are sick too, I think you do, don’t you.
Hello Sir Fenrir;
ReplyDeleteI am posting as anonymous, but for identification purposes here, I will call myself "Frank".
I would like to ask you several questions.
#1 Can you use this harsh method to make anyone into a total slave?
If you have a woman who to start with, has slight submissive tendencies, can you slowly (or fast) but progressively turn her into the total complete slave who will serve you totally and without hesitation in every way?
#2 How do you figure out her weaknesses and strengths to list?
#3 Can you really keep a girl hanging and beaten like that for so long, without causing medical issues or putting her life in serious danger?
#4 How can you tell when she is fully "emptied" so that you can start the rebuilding process.
#5 How exactly do you go about doing the rebuilding process and how can you tell when that has been accomplished?
#6 Once this has been done do you have to keep watch and constantly or periodically maintain her controlled subservient state?
#7 How can a master get his girl so devoted to serving him totally that she would never even start to think she would want to leave him so that he knows she is irrevocably his forever as long as he decides to keep her no matter how harshly and thoroughly he uses and abuses her?
I would love to see all these questions fully addressed.
If each one is addressed separately and in separate articles, that would be very fine with me.
I agree with the first comment for this article that your blog and posts are making a difference in teaching masters how to get the slaves to be the abject property they deserve to have.
So please keep it up.
Frank.
I also would like to know: how do you know exactly when the break point is reached? How do you know she isnt just trying to stop you from punishing her?
ReplyDeleteI see that there are a lot of questions about this topic and I will in time try to answer your questions either through here or in future posts.
ReplyDeleteThe question of finding the breaking point is not that hard when you think about it. When a slave is ready to do anything without hesitation for you, when she has overcome every resistance in her behavior, when all of her attention is directed toward you and what you are doing, she is ready. At least that is my goals. Remember that breaking your slave is just the first step in making a good slave, what you have done is to take away the inner resistance, she may still have doubts, boundaries and limits, not to mention indoctrination from upbringing, society, family and friends, that will get in the way and that takes training in servitude, obedience and everything else that bdsm have to offer.
What do you mean she is faking it? If she start to react the way you want of her the goal is reached isn’t it? The conversion is about breaking her old habits, to shift her priorities and to help her focus on you without any regards of her own needs. If she is just letting you think she is going along with the program she is mistaken, as soon as she start to accept your treatment she is in the first phase in being broken down and the rest should be easy for you.
I think the mistake you all make is to focus on the treatment and how you will go about to spank the slave or hurt her in some way. Instead of focus on the goal and what it is you really want to achive. Once you know that and also when you know your slave, it will be easy to make her into the kind of slave you want in your life.
So to sum this up, make sure you know the weakness and strengths of the slave at hand, set your goals, use your imagination, take your time and go to work.
Does this make sense to you?
Yes, this makes perfect sense. I am not all about the spanking though, it is the training that fascinates me the most, molding her into perfection... ahhh. I have done this to a lesser extent with my current girl, but i really didnt need to break her for my needs. Now that I see the full possibilities that can come through breaking/training i am completely blown away. Your posts really opened up my eyes, thank you.
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome, glad to be of help, friend.
ReplyDelete/Sir Fenrir